I could not sleep in last 4 nights since noticing u have sold the house while I was trying to find the money. to keep it My wish is to have a bird nest where u and Andrew can live whenever needed and ur mom could stay. But u chose to sell it ignoring my plead to ask u to wait for me for 2 Wks. U rush into selling while similar house on Cook in a bad shape were sold when asking $900,000 After ur mom’ s death I were thinking of moving in to cover all expenses so u and Andrew can live without worrying but ur attitude had put me back . In order to be able to stay with u and Andrew I had been living unhappy life for 24 yrs and U can’t just wait for me for 2 wks .I love u two quietly unlike others who likes to speak out. Even though I live apart fr u two for the last 7 yrs I am working hard to try to save something for u and Andrew but U and Andrew now think of being matured enough to be on ur own,u may think my advice is nonsense but just wait until u need to support a family of 4 . Life is not easy , making money is tough saving money is even tougher . I hope u would use the money to invest instead of spending it unwisely or u will be regret , remember only money can make money , don’t rely on ur working income to live comfortably, I used to make average of $180,000 /year but after taxes and all expenses, I could only saved $160,000 ,without any vacation ,for the down payment toward buying that house, 8 yrs ago ur mom secretly took out $50,000 loan because it was under her name and now u sold the house without consulting me.With proof of down payment and all monthly expenses,I thought of court action against her when I were lock out of the house but then I promised to myself not to take action as long as u two stay in that housebut then to make $100,000 is not hard but to save that much money it may require u to work for ur whole life,I wonder what I have done wrong . During the 2 wks in and out of hospital for treatment of a scar in my lung ,I worried of what u guys had for meals, how u cope with life without ur mom ,but I was in big shock to be told that u were in Europe, Andrew was in Kingston ,ignoring my calls ,the house was put up for sale, it really hurts me.I never expect to have such ending in my life sometimes people just simply speak to gain love without predicting the consequences.
God knows!!! U may not hear me lecturing again.
All my hope is to see u and live a happy and prosperous life.