This is so sad. A lot of people don’t know this, but most incest is rape within families and not a consensual couple. I understand why she wouldn’t have wanted to tell the lawyer when people make jokes like this all the time. Reading that a girl is trying to get a restraining order against her brother, who had fathered her child, and making a joke out of it contributes to a culture that makes it difficult for victims to come forward. Just something to think about for the future.